Peste tot in jurul meu oamenii vorbesc prea mult. Spun ca nu au timp pentru nimic... si totusi insista sa se implice in vietile celorlalti. Cuvinte grele, vorbe rautacioase. Fara temei. Oamenilor, de asemenea, nu le poti schimba parerea, indiferent ca sunt orgoliosi sau nu. Nu au mandrie sau convingerea ca au dreptate, ci doar vor sa demonstreze ceva. Ca ei sunt "intr-un fel anume". Ma intreb cateodata daca acesti oameni despre care vorbesc nu s-au gandit ca poate trebuie sa se construiasca pe sine insasi mai intai. Exact ca si cum ai construi o casa. Poate nu ne nastem cumva, poate trebuie sa devenim cumva. Asa cum vrem noi si nu cum vor ei. 

E greu sa fii bun si sa incerci sa oferi vorbe frumoase sau caldura, pentru ca vei primi o ura mascata in schimb. Ca vrei sa faci un bine sau nu, vei primi doar un zambet fals si o critica dura. Daca spui lucrurilor pe nume in incercarea de a spune ce simti tu sau cum privesti tu o anumita situatie, oamenii din jurul tau se vor simti jigniti. Totusi, nu ceda niciodata. Nu te pierde pe tine. Nu pe tine te urasc, se urasc pe sine. Cuvintele tale poate doar le amintesc de anumite defecte ori greseli. Iar ranile lor sunt cu atat mai dureroase cu cat au fost ascunse in trecut, cu cat au fost ignorate si nu acceptate. Asa ca fa bine si pastreaza orice idee pentru tine. Pastreaz-o inauntrul tau, astfel incat sa ramai tu acelasi om curat, dar nu o spune si celor din jur. Indiferent ca e menita sa faca un bine, va fi privita ca cel mai mare rau. 

Atunci cand ei vor incerca sa te descurajeze, pastreaza-ti curajul. Pentru ca niciun om nu e mai presus de visele tale. Nicio parere, niciun sfat, niciun cuvant, fie el si bine intentionat. Daca iti doresti ceva din inima, poti muta muntii din loc. Daca nu ma crezi, incearca. 

Oamenii spun multe si de fapt nu comunica nimic. Conteaza doar cei care au puterea de a te opri in loc cu o privire.

Controlling your mind, means, by all means, controlling your life. Change your thoughts and you will change your life. I learned that if I want to become a happier person, I have to be happier and find reasons for me being happier. And i found so many good reasons. I also learned that if I want good things to happen to me I shouldn't wait for them to happen. I should make marvelous things happen instead of a "long-term" waiting with no assurance that they will ever happen. Instead, I pray and do my best to make my life be amazing.

Well, we have such a power and we don't know it. We are powerful, as power comes from the heart. And, as your heart tells you what you really want, I advice you to just go for it. It might take some time and it might be risky, but, most probably, you'll get what you want.

To make a long story shot, be positive, because ordinary stuff that happen to you may be blessings in disguise. Be brave, dice with death, if needed, but never sell your soul.

Enjoy each day. Each sunrise brings something new. Just take advantage of it. 

And you should be the same. 

We all dream a lot. At least, I do. I dream of being forever young, travelling around and meeting interesting new people. Some dream about a famous career, others dream about finding their true love. Well, sometimes I wonder what do we really do to make our dreams come true. It may sound old-fashioned, and maybe you've heard it before, but I do believe that some of you don't exactly fight for making their dreams become reality. 

Of course, we all need some luck. But there's a long recipe for making our dreams come true, which, of course, consists of many ingredients. For example, you have to be ambitious. If you have just decided that you want to follow a certain path, never let other people tell you that you aren't good enough and that you are not the right person who can get on top. People are mean and nowadays they tend to be pessimistic, so just don't believe them. If you really want to do something, you can  will do it for sure. No one knows you good enough to tell you that you aren't suitable for a specific job, for example. You may be and you can also improve yourself. 

The second step is working hard. It may be the hardest one, but you should know that success never comes for free. Maybe you'll get tired, you will no longer sleep enough and so on, but remember that results will bring you satisfaction and also that the road to a certain destination is even better than the result, because you deal with situations that you've never dealt with before.

The third step is to give up doing different things you did before and try to focus on your present and future. It's a very hard one, but time will bring new experiences to you and I'm sure you don't want to spend your most beautiful years stuck in the past. 

Have faith, be strong and ignore everything that draws you back. And when you do succeed, never let success go to your head. 

I wish you all good luck! :)

Well, I am sure you all met annoying people. I am absolutely sure you know that kind of people who will ask you to help them all the time. And because you are an educated person, you will say "yes" to them. Of course, after being asked for help too many times, it just becomes boring. In other situations, you have to say "yes" to someone, because you are forced to. But, stop a little. Think about it. Do you really have to say "yes"? I mean, you only have one life, which is only yours, no one should have the power to control YOUR life. So, may I say that it would be advisable for you to say "fuck off" to all the people that try to trample over your or get on your nerves. Just stay chill and ignore them. You move on, they will stay behind. 

Well, try something. From today on, there will be no more "yes" answers. There will be either "hell yeah" or "FUCK OFF" answers, which give you a pretty awesome feeling. I know, it sounds a bit rough, but what the fuck? Just try it. Like in the "Yes man" movie. You'll have nothing to lose, though. And maybe it will turn out to be fun. 

So you should stop being afraid. Take risks. I know, other people will judge you. But that's what most people do. Because not all the people around you are very clever or educated, as you are. And when they judge you, they just show they are dominated by envy. Don't take them too serious, you shouldn't waste your time with them. Out there amazing people are waiting for you to paint the town red together. So, go ahead. Live out of a suitcase, live every moment to the fullest and don't ever forger every cloud has a silver lining. :) 

As 2012 has just begun, make it worth. You have the entire year to make it happen. 

Looks like I'm back in black. Well, I might excuse myself by saying that I've been occupied and that's the reason I haven't written on my blog lately. Lies! Don't take me for granted! Truth is ... I haven't found the inspiration I needed. Reasons: routine, monotony, shitty timetable and so on.

But, problem is, I got used to that routine and lived by its own rules. Then, one day, I woke up and realized I was doing the same things like...over and over. And i was feeling tired, stressed and I was even more quick-tempered than before without any logical reason. So I put the blame on routine, which really makes our lives sadder.

So, I decided to write a post in order to help people get over routine and find something interesting to do at any time. Of course, it mainly depends on your mood, but I will give you some tips which will help you to make the best of everything. 

1. Go out. Don't spend too much time at home. As school of hard-knocks taught me, great life experiences don't happen in your bed. 

2. Well, if your friends just keep refusing going out, change them! I mean, I know, they're your friends. But friends are supposed to be those crazy, funny people you have fun with. First try to explain them the situation, then, if they don't agree and they keep hiding themselves in their homes, CHANGE THEM.

3. Meet new people, try new places. Never spend a lot of time in the same place. You've got only one life, unless you're a cat, and I'm sure you want to see more of this world, not only 2-3 pubs and so on. 

4. When you feel like you're extremely bored, do something. Read a book, watch a tv show, call someone you want to talk to, but NEVER, and I'm really serious, NEVER complain, because you'll only end up complaining all the time and it's no GOOD, not at all. 

5. Especially if you're a teenager, try everything! Don't say no! Just go with the flow. Of course, I'm not suggesting you should end up being an alcoholic or a drug addict, all I'm trying to say is...DO NOT BE LIMITED. 

6. Dance, dance, dance. If you're bored, play music louder and just dance. Best feeling in the world. 

7. If you have a relationship, don't lie to yourself that being with a person 24/24 means you love them. Don't become depressed because of your "fabulous" relationship. 

8. Smile, smile, smile and eat a lot of chocolate. <3

9. You could use some hot guys/girls too. 

Well, I hope you will find my advice useful and that it will really help you enjoy your life. Or actually live it. I'll do the same, pinky promise!!!

P.s: There was a 10, too. Every time you feel like you're sad, take your best friend and take some funny, stupid pictures. You'll laugh because of them, trust me. It works every time. :)